The chapter 4 about being a “contribution” was so freeing. This book has somehow changed my attitude about several negative ideas and feelings that I have been experiencing for the past few months. I almost have permission not to feel those things anymore. Here are some changes in thought that I have shifted--like a paradigm shift just recently:
THEN: not doing enough as a mother for my children
NOW: I have contributed by preparing meals in advance for my kids, I have arranged for activities for them, I am starting a new job so that I will be in a better frame of mind for them (all in the past week).
THEN: I am not being a happy, productive worker (teacher)
NOW: I can make a better impression within a smaller (new) workplace and exercise new skills and gifts
THEN: I have had little time for friends and don’t have time to do much of anything because I am so busy
NOW: Even with a new job, time in the evenings and weekends will soon be mine to devote to others again, especially as I finish this degree.
I already feel freer about transforming my train of thought in this process. This book could not have come at a better time in this program. This program has brought so much value to my life and my career that I just want to pass it on. That is the subject of chapter 5--”Being a leader from any chair”--the subject of my next blog post.
"Why is your dog in the picture?" Because I am contributing to his happiness by taking him to Starbucks with me and giving him whipped cream more often!
